Want an Impressed Hubby?

Every good man loves when his wife says or does something that impresses him. Every good wife loves when her husband is in awe of something she has said or done for him. The same is true vice versa in a healthy marriage. So what are some things that we can do to impress our husbands?







Ask him




When was the last time you asked your husband what his definition of romance was? Many of us wives tend to assume we know exactly what makes him feel the best but we tend to miss out on new and exciting things that he may want to pursue because of our assumptions from the past. You don’t have to be a creative genius in order to astound your husband. Even if you’re the most uncreative wife you can ask your husband what would impress him. You might be surprised by his answer and you might not be. But giving him the respect of asking him first will help you plan your next move to impress him.




Talk about what he talks about




Many of us wives have completely different interests than our husbands. For instance my husband loves talking about business and I love talking about antiques. I know my husband appreciates when I engage with him in conversation about business even if it’s just for a few minutes. He knows I dread talking about business but I give him a little time each day to talk about business and share his dreams and goals with me. What does your husband talk about? How can you learn a little bit more about his interests? What questions can you ask him about his passions that would really impress him? As you engage in conversation about what your husband likes talking about you’ll notice a difference in his demeanor.




Surprise him




Some husbands don’t like surprises. All husbands like good and well-planned surprises. Find out what would make him happy and just do it. This is a very simple concept. When our husbands see that we made a good effort to do something out of the ordinary that doesn’t hinder anything important in his schedule he will notice your effort and be impressed. This worked for me when one night my husband was coming home from work on a Tuesday night and instead of coming to the house with dinner still cooking I had the food made and candles lit. It was simple task and nothing too special in particular but it was something out of the ordinary and my efforts impressed my husband.




Thank your husband




Our husbands love being thanked for what they do. Even if they don’t do much the show of appreciation goes a long way. Acknowledgement of accomplishments and tasks completed show our husbands that their work doesn’t go unnoticed. And our husbands flourish under praise and affirmation.




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About The Author: Katie Melendez is a writer for Smith Monitoring. Katie is also a wife, youth mentor, and a health nut. Follow her blogs for all current trends on home, health, and family.



16 comments

  1. This is so true. I usually ask my husband those questions once in a while and he ask me too. The only thing that I didn't do is buying my hubby's gadgets.I guess its too expensive for me and he doesn't need it.hehehe

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  2. Those are truly indeed great tips to have a healthy relationship, communications and affection should always be present.

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  3. Oh I thought I am being silly for asking hubby that question lol. Whenever I ask him, she would reply but the there is "You're silly" at the end lol. He said that I know what's the answer to my question but I always say that I don't know if it changes already so I want to make sure lol.

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  4. I do not know if I ever impressed him. I am always the 'blatant a-hole' of the house. Joke!

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  5. These are good tips to impress a husband, I'm thinking when to start with this.

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  6. I shall bear all these things in mind, Dokie! Coming from a happily married wife like you, these tips sure worked. Thanks a bunch for the lovely share!

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  7. Great sana, if a husband feel this way. Not me, I'm fine na just hearing the magic words 'I Love You' said by my wife. Ganoon lang kababaw ang trip ko. I am not the materialic type of guy.

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  8. Great stuff! :D Indeed, it takes both the husband and the wife to do the give-and-take thingy, including complimenting, and create a lasting and happy marriage.

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  9. Me and my husband have different taste and we usually have common interest in terms of gadgets and computers. So when I surprised him with an expensive xbox+kinect, its not actually for him but also for me...hehehe so we can dance showdown together

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  10. Well, I will just take note of these things you listed kasi single pa ako eh. No husband nor oyfriend to impress at all :)

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  11. I'm so thankful everyday for being married to a wonderful man. I'm glad that we shared same interest together. We both love photography, motorcycling, eating and yes gadgets.

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  12. When we were living together I used to do the stuff listed in here. But when our child arrives I've got no time maybe I am just adjusting. It's going to be two years now that I did nothing to impress him, I found it an excuse since I am again pregnant and this time it is not planned (but very much accepted)and I am more sickly and sensitive than my first born. Will try to do new stuff to impress him once I gave birth and get used of the duties of being a mom.

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  13. Beautiful tips to love our man better Sis :-) I love to surprise my man and happy to know that he thank me for doing that to him :-)

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  14. I always see to it that I show and make my hubby feel that he is loved by me and make him feel that I appreciate every thing he does for us.
    I'm glad I did it, as I do all the things you pointed out here :)

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  15. I don't know why but my partner feels so special even for a little thing I do for him. He is a guy who appreciates much of my efforts. So I think I don't need to make something grand for him, LOL.

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  16. back here to check if my comment went through last night, unfortunately in was not. anyway, thanks for sharing Doc, these are great tips on how to impressed our respective partners in life...always good read! for me, i always make sure that he gets what he needs and wants, that he always taken cared, loved and appreciated...:) have a great week po. :)

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